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Conquering Ring Nerves -
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Nerves!
Be
Bold. If you're going to make an error, make a
doozy, and don't be afraid to hit the ball. -
Billie Jean King
Issue: April,
2003
Publisher & Editor: Diane
Peters Mayer
A.
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April's Training
Tip will help you get relaxed, calm and
serene. And it's so easy!
A
reader from Florida tells Handlers'
Tales how she changed herself and her dogs
from "bundles of nerves" to awesome champions.
Second
Chances features the continuing story
of one human-aggressive rescued Border Collie.
In BookPicks,
you'll learn that walking and breathing can really
change your state of mind.
Call
For: your stories, poems, rescue sites,
book reviews, questions and comments. Submission
deadline for the May issue is May 20th. Thanks.
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Zealand, Finland and South Africa on a topic that
may be difficult to think about and discuss otherwise.
Please
join us to become the handler of your dreams. Your
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Enjoy.
Diane
B.
Training Tip of the Month
Walk,
Breathe, De-Stress, and Get Centered!
Walking
is a great way to relieve tension and anxiety at
any time, and it's so easy to use at a show. Just
taking a walk around the parking lot before your
event may be an effective stress-buster. Here's a
wonderful breathing technique developed by Yogi Bhajan,
Ph.D. and Gurucharan Singh Khalsa, Ph.D. authors
of Breathwalk: Breathing Your Way to a Revitalized
Body, Mind and Spirit (see BookPicks to
order), to add to your walk. It's a quick way to
reduce competition angst, increase focus and concentration,
and keep you centered in the present.
The
Eagle Breathwalk:
- Stand
tall, back is straight and relaxed.
- Shoulders
should be down and relaxed.
- Begin
walking at a slow to moderate pace.
- Take
3-4 Yoga Breaths (click
here to review Jan 2002 issue).
- Now
on the next inhale, breathe in 4 short breaths,
timing the breaths as you walk 4 steps.
- As
you exhale, breathe out 4 short breaths as you
walk 4 steps.
- Continue
this breathing pattern for 2-3 minutes, making
sure you are matching breaths to steps.
- Now
relax, and breathe normally for about 5 minutes
as you continue walking.
- Repeat
the 4 steps / 4 breaths / 5 minutes of normal breathing
pattern at least 2-3 times.
- After
you stop, take a few minutes to see how you feel
physically and mentally.
Training Tips:
- Practice
daily at home and work.
- Practice
before all dog training sessions.
- Use
before you enter the show site.
- Use
at a show while you're waiting for your number
to be called.
- Practice
during short and long walks.
It
may take time to feel comfortable with this breathing
pattern. Keep trying! It will take you down the path
to peace and serenity.
C.
Handlers' Tales
Marie
Logue lives in Florida and competes with her Cavalier
King Charles Spaniels, Winston and GiGi mainly in
agility, but does some obedience (both dogs have
their CD), and soon will be competing in Freestyle.
Here's her story:
For
the first couple of years I competed I was so nervous
I could not focus on an entire excellent course.
I would take my eyes off my dog, would forget the
course and couldn't qualify. Among the things I did
to get over the nervousness and lack of focus was
to think and read about the mental aspect of my sport.
One day on the Internet I saw information on a Competing
At Your Peak Ring Nerve seminar (this was before
the book and tape). I wrote and asked to purchase
the handouts for the seminar since it was too far
away for me to attend. This was the missing link!
From those notes I began teaching myself how to visualize,
do Yoga breathing, focus on my body and feet, and
so on, and things changed dramatically for me. I
began to enjoy lots of success!
Since
we started using the program we have progressed to
competing at the highest levels of our sport, agility.
My Winston and I have achieved AKC's highest agility
title, Master Agility Champion title (MACH) three
times, the only Cavalier to do so and one of under
100 dogs in the country to do so. Winston was AKC's
Top Cavalier for 2000 and 2002 and the twentieth
dog of all dogs in the country in double qualifications
for 2002. He earned USDAA's Master Agility Dog title
this year (MAD) and last year earned USDAA's Master
Relay (RM) title. He holds UKC's Agility Champion
title, his AKC obedience CD, and a couple of other
accomplishments too.
GiGi
has earned UKC's Agility Champion title, is 90% finished
with her requirements for AKC's MACH, has her USDAA
Agility Dog (AD) title and AKC's obedience CD. She
does not compete in agility as much as Winston as
she prefers obedience.
I
will soon be doing Freestyle with both dogs and expect
to use the same "zoning" techniques I use
for agility and obedience.
The
Competing At Your Peak program has made all the difference
in the world in my ability to focus and develop a
pre-trial routine that puts me and my dogs in the
zone. I NEVER go into the ring without having first
done deep stretches accompanied by Yoga breathing,
pressed my thumbs and forefingers together, said "calm",
taken 3 Yoga breaths (several times if possible),
focused on my body if time allows, if not just on
my feet. The most interesting part is, Winston is
all excited and wild when we get ready to go to the
line. Then I take my 3 Yoga breaths and watch him
settle right down and focus on me. It's as though'
the calmness goes through my body, down the leash
and into his body. If the first 3 breaths don't do
it, I take three more until I see him become calm
and focused.
I
purchased the Audio Ring Nerve Program just before
the AKC national competition last November where
we ran all 5 runs fast and clean and came in 22nd
out of 128 dogs in our division! Not bad for a little
Cavalier among all those Shelties.
Marie
MACh3
Winston, CD, MAD, RM, U-ACH
Coach GiGi, CD, MX, MXJ, U-ACH, AD
Thanks
Marie for telling us how you did it. What a great
story of incredible focus and determination.
Note:
Have your own Handlers' Tale? Please share it with
us by sending it to: CAYPNews@aol.com
D.
Second Chances
Pam
Dennison updates PeakNews on her continuing work
with her rescued Border Collie, Shadow.
Dear
Diane,
I wrote to you two months ago about entering my recovering human aggressive
Border Collie Shadow in an APDT Rally trial. I was familiar with the
show site and broke down each behavior needed to successfully get into
the building. I worked on door etiquette with people standing right in
the doorway, coming in and going out as Shadow and I were going in and
out, added other dogs and tried to replicate as much as possible taking
him calmly into a busy building. I also practiced keeping his undivided
attention no matter how many people were milling around.
Day
of the show is here! I am calm, cool, collected.
I get to the show site an hour early and take Shadow
out to potty him. He is completely and utterly inattentive.
I start hyperventilating. I put him back in the van.
I potty the other 3 dogs and go back to Shadow. He
is slightly better. After about 1/2 hour, I bring
him out again - I wanted to practice going in and
out of the building. No go. He could not focus on
me. I am freaked out completely. I am angry and disappointed.
I put him back in the van, slam the door and start
screaming as I walk around the parking lot. I was
sorely disappointed that with all of the work we
have done, he couldn't focus on me. I try to breathe
with a modicum of success. 30 minutes later, I bring
him out again. almost have him to the door and thousands
of people are going in and out and I was too afraid
to try.
So,
I give up my dream of perfect door etiquette and
got my husband Jim, to stand by the door and watch
for me. We went into the building with Shadow between
us (like moving a rock star in and out of a crowd)
and I had a wad of food shoved in his mouth as we
walked to where there was room to work him. I had
him in front of me and fed him continually. Then
we heeled a tiny bit and I took him outside. Whew!
When
the time came for Shadow to go into the ring, I repeated
the same - had Jim watch the door and walk us in
with Shadow between us. Once inside and in a safe
corner, I had him watch out for strangers approaching
so I could concentrate on Shadow. I did touch, petting
and feeding and then I realized we were both shivering
in fear. I hugged Shadow and looked directly into
his eyes and said, "Honey, we will both be fine." And
we both stopped shivering! I was unable to practice
my breathing exercises at all - I couldn't even get
to the point where I could even TRY to breathe, BUT,
I was able to practice positive mental imagery and
it helped.
Time
to go into the ring! Jim and I walked Shadow up to
the ring and whew! We are in! Judge asked if we are
ready and I say "yes," and off we went!
Shadow was brilliant! As soon as the routine was
over, Jim was waiting by the ring gate and we whisked
Shadow out of the building.
I
went back in and guess what I saw!? Shadow had gotten
a score of 198 (out of a possible 200)!!! He tied
for first place with my other Border Collie Beau,
so we had to do a runoff. It is weird doing a runoff
with yourself! I was much calmer this time and was
able to breathe normally. Shadow won the runoff and
won the class!
Later
that day, there was another trial and I was almost
completely calm for this one. We had all gotten the
logistics down on how to move Shadow in and out of
the building and we were both relaxed and confident.
He was wonderful again! He got a 3rd place with a
score of 197! I still was unable to do the belly
breathing, so I just concentrated on imagery.
All
in all, it was a great day! I spoke with Ted Turner
after the trial (of SeaWorld fame - Ted knows Shadow
personally) and told him how our day went. He was
thrilled, not only about Shadow's placement and performance,
but the fact that I was lucid enough to be able to
switch gears when Shadow was incapable of doing proper
door etiquette and didn't let it affect our entire
day and subsequent win and placements.
The
moral? If you can't do one thing (like breathing)
then try something else! If you practice diligently,
all of the techniques that Diane teaches, in a pinch,
at least one of them will work!
Pam
Dennison
Dogs of Today: Cody, Beau, Shadow and new rescue Molly
Dogs of yesterday: Carrie, Noel, Brandy
"If you don't have time to train your dog, get a stuffed animal"
Website: www.positivedogs.com
Email: dennison@goes.com
Thanks
Pam for your updated story. Kudos to you and Shadow
for demonstrating again that re-homed dogs are worth
that second chance!
Note:
Have a rescue story you'd like to share with us?
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send it to: CAYPNews@aol.com
E.
Book Picks
This
book can be purchased from Amazon.com by clicking
on the book title or image:
Breathwalk:
Breathing Your Way to a Revitalized Body, Mind,
and Spirit
by
Yogi Bhajan, PhD and Gurucharan Singh Khalsa, PhD
(Broadway Books, 2000)
The
authors have developed simple walking/breathing
exercises to improve your physical and mental
health.
Read
a book that you loved or has helped with competition?
Submit a review to CAYPNews@aol.com
F.
Announcements & Coming Events
Upcoming
Combating Ring Nerve Seminars for handlers and their
dogs:
- Saturday,
July 12, 2003 at The Oriole Dog Training
Club, Baltimore, MD
- Saturday,
October 4, 2003 at Positive Motivation
Dog Training, Blairstown, NJ
Space
is limited. Register Now!
For
more information, please write via email: CAYPNews@aol.com or click
here.
Want
to Beat Ring Nerves? Can't make a Ring Nerve Seminar?
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are two more ways to learn the Program that has helped
handlers from across the US and abroad achieve success
in the ring:
ONE-ON-ONE
Training teaches you to:
- Stop
anxiety and panic
- Stay
calm and relaxed
- Feel
balanced and centered
- Be
in command physically and mentally
- Move
smoothly in the ring
- Be
confident
- Channel
your nerves into a great performance
- Enjoy
competition
Program
Description:
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- We
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- Successful
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You
can run with the big dogs or sit on the porch and
bark. - Wallace Arnold
Click
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- Great Exercises & Techniques.
- A
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- Guided
Imagery to mentally rehearse your perfect performance.
- Terrific Training
Tips.
This
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The
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in US. (PA residents add $1.80 sales tax). International
add $10.00 S&H.
To
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card online, please click
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or
call Diane at 215-348-8836.
G.
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