Welcome
to the monthly newsletter from
Conquering Ring Nerves
The
Unique Dog Handlers' Training Program to Combat Ring
Nerves!
"We
give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare
and love we can spare and in return, dogs give
us their all. It's the best deal
man has ever made." M.
Facklam
Issue:
July, 2002
Publisher & Editor: Diane
Peters Mayer
President, Conquering Ring Nerves
Co-editor:
Vanessa Klapper - Director of Fitness
A.
PeakSpeak
B. Training Tip of The Month
C. Handlers Tales - Contest Winners
D. Second Chances
E. Handlers ISO
F. Announcements & Coming Events
G. Invitations
A.
PeakSpeak
Hello
and welcome to all of our readers and new subscribers.
PeakNews offers a range of information about ring
nerves, the ways to conquer it, and how to really
enjoy competition, plus your stories, interviews,
book reviews and more.
We
enjoyed a wonderful vacation. At the same time that
Diane played fetch with Benny or lay in a hammock
reading mysteries, and Vanessa trained for her first
Triathalon (is that a vacation?), we were also working
hard on the Audio Ring Nerve Program & Training
Manual, which will be available in a few weeks.
Our
July Training Tip is about "Ring
Nerves and Routines."
This
month, Handlers Tales announces
the winners of the "Funniest Ring Nerve Stories",
and we feature their submissions. I know you'll enjoy
them as much as we did. A big thank you to all PeakNews
readers who sent in stories!
We
offer a new column this month, Handlers
ISO, with a request from a South African
reader.
A
reader sent in a lovely piece for Second
Chances. We greatly appreciate her offering.
PeakNews
offers a unique format in which to engage and connect
with handlers from the US, Canada, Australia, NewZealand,
Finland and South Africa who, in some form, all experience "ring
nerves."
Please
send along your submissions for the August issue
now. We need stories for Handlers Tales and Second
Chances, and questions for Ask The Coaches.
Length is unimportant and we'll be glad to edit for
you. If you'd like to correspond with other readers,
just send in your request and we'll publish it in Handlers
ISO. The deadline for all submissions is August
20.
Please
join us to become the handler of your dreams. Your
dog will thank you!
Enjoy.
Diane & Vanessa
B.
Training Tip of the Month
In
a Ring Nerve Rut? Then
take a look at your "routine."
Most
of you have created routines around competing. From
the time you register for an event, to the moment
you step into the ring, you have established a pattern
of customary behaviors and actions.
Routines
have a natural rhythm that can make you feel secure
and centered and able to focus your energy and attention
within the comfort zone of habit. Sometimes, however,
you may find that this "comfort zone" stands
in the way of reaching your goals. So, the routine
that you have in place may be one of your problems.
If
you experience anxiety from show to show, get low
scores, complain that your dog is not getting the
job done, and are usually disappointed in your results,
you'll want to look closely at your show routine.
Ring nerves may actually have become an inherent
part of the pattern you've created around showing.
In order to attain success, you'll need to make some
changes.
- Write
down, in detail, all your feelings, thoughts, behaviors
and actions from the time you decide to register
for a show, to your performance in the ring and
how you feel after competition.
- Find
all your patterns of behavior in your show preparations
and performance. Write them down, and try to become
aware of how "ring nerves" may have permeated
every aspect of competing, from just thinking about
the upcoming show, to actually stepping into the
ring.
- Next,
make a list of what behaviors and actions work
positively for you.
- Then,
make a list of the behaviors and actions that work
against you.
- Write
down the changes you need to make, and rate them
from the easiest to the hardest.
- Create
a plan of action, and begin with the easiest changes
first.
- Decide
on daily or weekly goals, and make them small,
manageable and achievable.
- Focus
on one change at a time.
- Break
down the big goals into smaller pieces.
- Realize
that you'll probably feel uncomfortable at first
as you begin to alter your patterns of behavior,
but eventually these changes will pay off and you'll
become accustomed to this new routine.
- From
time to time, repeat the above exercise, and make
the changes necessary for improvement and success.
C.
Handlers' Tales - And the Winners Are
1st
Place: E.E.
and M.E. a married couple who both submitted stories.
They win the Audio Ring Nerve Program & Manual
and two hours of coaching.
2nd
Place: Lee
Allen and Tessa of Texas. They win the Audio Ring
Nerve Program & Manual and one hour of coaching.
3rd
Place: Rosemarie
Ludwig and Kim of South Africa. They win the Audio
Ring Nerve Program & Manual.
Congratulations
to the winners!! And a big thank you to all of the
PeakNews readers who submitted stories.
The
Funniest Ring Nerve Stories
1st
Place E.E.:
One of my biggest ring nerve problems is being able to concentrate in
the ring . This is especially difficult in the Utility Class where there
are so many more things to think about and focus on. Sometimes this makes
funny things happen. This incident occurred recently when I was entered
in my first Utility show.
We
had completed the heeling and the signal exercise
and were qualifying so far. I had received permission
from the judge to pick up the first article and was
scenting it. The judge, a very dignified looking,
older, white haired gentleman who had obviously been
judging for years, was standing there with his clipboard,
obviously waiting for me to finish scenting the article
and get set to go. Somehow, my brain ceased to function
and I asked him, "Are you ready?" After
I said it, I thought to myself, that was kind of
a stupid thing to say, so I just pretended I hadn't
said anything. He didn't reply and I handed him the
article. He then asked me if I was ready and I said, "Yes." He
had a very strange expression on his face and probably
thought I was crazy. Nevertheless, he told me to
send my dog, who retrieved the correct article. We
finished the other exercises, qualified and earned
first place. We did eventually get our title, but
have not yet shown under that judge again. I'll bet,
though, that when judges get together over lunch
or dinner at shows, he tells the story about the
nervous guy who had the nerve to ask him, the judge,
if he was ready for the exercise to begin.
M.E.:
My husband and I like to combine vacation travel with our dog showing
and we have enjoyed showing in various parts of the country. The
anonymity a distant show gives you seems to help my ring nerves.
Although I have managed to convince myself that there is less to
be nervous about when showing away from home, sometimes local speech
patterns combined with ring nerves can lead to some strange results.
I
was showing in Open A at a cluster show in Raleigh,
North Carolina a few years ago. We had done fairly
well up to the last show day, earning our CDX and
even winning a couple of placements. Ring conditions
had been perfect and it had been a very quiet show
where obedience was in a separate building from the
conformation show. There was no difficulty hearing
the judges' directions as there can be at some large,
noisy shows. We completed the first four open exercises
and I was actually getting to the point where I was
feeling good about what we were doing. Then we lined
up for the broad jump. The judge, a very big, older
man from Georgia, was standing behind me. and off
to the side. He gave the order to "Leave your
dog." The thing was, I heard him to say, "Send
your dog." So I did ....from the starting position,
not from the correct position by the broad jump..
There was a collective gasp from the spectators as
my wonderful, well trained dog took the jump and
came back to me in front with a very puzzled expression.
I couldn't believe I had done what I had done. Then
the judge burst out laughing, walked up behind me,
put his arm around my shoulders and said, "In
all my years of judging, I've seen a lot of things,
but I've never seen the broad jump done quite that
way." I've since shown under the same judge,
who, I believe, hasn't forgotten the incident because
he always has this strange smile on his face when
I enter his ring.
M.E.:
"I have been in dogs for more years than I'd like to admit. I started when
my six month old golden retriever puppy began walking me instead of the other
way around. I joined a dog training club, got bitten by the "show bug" and
have been showing golden retrievers ever since. I am currently showing a golden
in open, getting ready for utility and have a 9 month old puppy who has been
teaching me a thing or two about obedience."
E.E.:
"I am currently showing a golden retriever in Utility B. I have been showing
dogs for about 21 years, belonging to various clubs and training with several
professionals. Some years ago I did field work as well as obedience. I am working
with a golden puppy as well as the UD dog. This is the very first contest I have
ever won."
2nd
Place Hey
PeakNews readers,
Dad
and I wanted to let you know about our first agility
trial. It was a NADAC trial in Pearland (Texas).
Dad woke me up pretty early Saturday morning which
was fine with me. I much rather be up and about.
After breakfast all four of us canines and Mom and
Dad loaded up in the van and drove for a little while.
From the smell of things in the van and the sight
of crates and chairs I new we were going to spend
the day somewhere. I was not real happy because that
meant I had to spend most of the day in my crate
while the other dogs played. We set up in a nice
shady place with some breeze so this might not be
too bad.
Can
you imagine my surprise when Dad came and got me
out of my crate and told me I was going to get to
play. Boy was I excited. I was pretty used to being
at trials with all the noise and smells. Man this
was really different. Everybody at the gate area
was real serious and some of the other dogs did not
look too happy. Before I knew it dad took me out
into the ring. This was going to be great !!! The
sky was a beautiful blue, the grass was freshly mown,
and here were all these jumps and tunnels.....those
jump bars sure do look high. Dad took my leash off
and told me to wait. I hope it's not too long and
then he said OK and we were off. I was really gunning
over those first few jumps, it does not get any better
than this, "what's that jump doing there?."...."oops," I
misjudged my stride..."ouch", I tangled
my feet in the bar and took quite a tumble. "Grass
stains look so tacky on white fur." I jumped
up, Dad gave a long look and asked if I was OK and
off we went again to finish my first ever agility
run. Not quite my best effort but I got a jackpot
of treats and a nice cool drink. I just might like
this.
My
other runs that day were quite the learning experience
for me and Dad. Sometimes I was not clear on what
he wanted me to do or the direction he wanted me
to go , but it sure was fun and beat the heck out
of being in my crate all day. I just wish they would
not set those bars so high. Don't they know I'm only
18 months old?
Sunday
was more of the same feelings. Getting up early,
going to the trial site. "Man those trash cans
really smell interesting . What are all of those
little blue houses?" Dad and I were getting
ready to do something called novice regular. Looked
just like playtime to me. Our turn came and we walked
to the wait line. Why do they call it a start line
when they always make you wait? It was at this time
that I noticed a stranger in the ring with us. "This
will not do at all" (bark) and the stranger
is wearing a big billowy shirt and "oh my goodness" (bark)
what is that strange thing she has on her head????
This will not do at all!!!!!!!. I am just going to
have to go tell this stranger to leave my ring!!!!!!!
This will not do (bark, bark), this will not do at
all (bark, bark, bark!!!!!!!!).
Can
you imagine Dad getting upset with me and telling
me to come in a rough voice. Well I came but during
this run kept one eye on Dad and one on the stranger
with a couple of barks thrown in during the run.
Everyone was clapping and cheering when we finished.
Something about a clean run and something else called
a "Q." Oh well where's my cool drink?
See
Ya,
Tessa
Tessa: "Bark,
bark, bark, arf, arf, bark, bark, bark......................bark." (Is
now a 2 1/2 year old rescued Border Collie with more
than a few titles under her collar. She is loved,
owned, and handled by Lee Allen).
Lee
Allen:
"I will have to let Tessa know that she won. Now she will really get the
big head. Tessa and I live in La Porte, Texas. It is east of Houston and borders
Galveston Bay. I began competing in agility in 1999 after coaching girls soccer
for 21 years. My wife and I compete with our BC's. We have two grown children
and agility is our main hobby. We are fortunate to have enough space to train
in our backyard on most occasions with a trip to a formal training site every
now and then. I enjoy the uniqueness of agility. Making the connection with your
dog, and the camaraderie with the people is special."
3rd
place The
Circus Dog!
In
August last year one mini-team (small breeds), and
standard team (larger breeds) consisting of four
deep (four dogs per Province) each from Natal, went
to Bloemfontein in the Orange Free State, to compete
in an Inter Provincial (SA has been divided into
9 Provinces, eg. like US states) This was against
four other provinces. (Natal on the east coast is
sub-tropical with rolling green hills of sugar cane.
The Orange Free State on the other hand is savannah
and scrub land - good maize and cattle farming area).
The
event opened with a parade with all the dogs and
handlers in their provincial colours. We were all
quite nervous as this was also a first time for the
mini dogs. Hooch is a mini dog - a white cross "pavement
special" (dogs of undetermined breed, both sexes
run around on the sidewalks and copulate, and Hooch
is a result).
The
handler managed to steer the dog clear over the obstacles
to the A-frame but now Hooch stood at the top of
the A-frame surveying the flea market (the location
of the event). The handler was desperately trying
to encourage the dog to come down. Meanwhile the
clock was ticking on with the commentator saying: "You
see, folks, in Natal there are lots of green hills
with sugar cane, but here in the Free State it is
flat as far as the eye can see and obviously Hooch
thinks the A-frame is a hill!" Eventually, his
curiosity satisfied, Hooch descended the A-frame
and fixed his eye on the see-saw. He could not be
steered to the next obstacle.
He
ascended the see-saw and proceeded to the centre
where he stopped. Moving to just over the centre,
he caused the see-saw to go up and down with him
manipulating it from the centre! The crowd was in
hysterics at this stage and the commentator speechless.
The poor handler had given up any idea of completing
the course at this stage. To the wild cheering of
the crowd she managed to get Hooch off the see-saw
and over the last jump.
Hooch
of course thought he had won first prize and came
off looking well pleased with himself. I have never
enjoyed an event so much.
Rosemarie
Ludwig
Umtentweni
Kwa Zulu Natal
Rep of South Africa
Rosemarie
Ludwig:
"I have been doing agility for the last 4 years as it is a new sport in
South Africa. Kim is a 2 1/2 year old Border Collie. I also train other beginner
handlers and their dogs and I enjoy watching how the dogs progress from week
to week. I think I am as excited as they are when they enter their dogs into
their first dog show. I find that while training Kim I forget all the stress
from work. I have done 11 comrades marathons, i.e. road runs of 90km, but this
I do not do anymore and I have my provincial colours for the 42km runs. I also
sew all my own clothes and I work a full day as a pharmacist at our local government
hospital. I run 11km every morning except the weekends when I train Kim and the
others."
"We
live on the Natal coast. It's really tropical and
beautiful there."
D.
Second Chances
Thank
you PeakNews reader for this tender piece.
Not An Angel
The
young pup and the older dog lay on shaded sweet grass
watching the reunions. Sometimes a man, sometimes
a woman, sometimes a whole family would approach
the Rainbow Bridge, be greeted by their loving pets
and cross the bridge together.
The
young pup playfully nipped at the older dog. "Look!
Something wonderful is happening!" The older
dog stood up and barked, "Quickly. Get over
to the path."
"But
that's not my owner," whined the pup, but he
did as he was told. Thousands of pets surged forward
as a figure in white walked on the path toward the
bridge.
After
the glowing figure passed each animal, that animal
bowed its head in love and respect. The figure finally
approached the bridge, and was met by a menagerie
of joyous animals. Together, they all walked over
the bridge and disappeared.
The
young pup was still in awe. "Was that an angel?" he
whispered.
"No
son." The older dog replied. "That was
more than an angel. That was a person who worked
rescue."
Note: Please send us the story of your rescued dog and how it became
or is becoming a competitor. As a thank you for your contribution,
Competing At Your Peak Inc. will donate $25.00 in you and your
dog's name, to the shelter or rescue group of your choice. To submit
a story, please write to us at: CAYPNews@aol.com
E.
Handlers ISO
Rosemarie
Ludwig wishes to correspond with readers of PeakNews.
She does not have a computer.
Her
contact information is: P.O. Box 324, Umtentweni,
4235, Rep. of South Africa. See Rosemarie's bio in
this month's Handlers Tales column.
F.
Announcements & Coming Events
Seminar
- Combating Ring Nerves For All Dog Sports -
For Handlers and Dogs.
Saturday, October 19, 2002, 9:00am-4:00pm in Blairstown, NJ
Make
plans now to attend our popular six hour seminar!
Or call us about presenting at your club. Learn great exercises and techniques
to help you relax, concentrate, stay connected to your dog, walk smoothly
in the ring, and much more. Don't miss it!
See
the difference a day makes!
Click
here to register
or call Diane at 215-348-8836
New!! Program
for Handlers with Aggressive and/or Reactive Dogs*
* *
Stop "freaking
out" when your dog does. If your dog has
major behavioral problems, your responses to its
actions may be fueling the fire. Our program will
teach you why your nerves stand in your dog's way,
how to stay calm and collected in all circumstances.
This
program will be offered in a four hour Workshop (without
dogs) in Spring 2003. Check PeakNews and our website
this fall for dates and times. Click links above
to learn more about it or call Diane at 215-348-8836.
One-On-One, Group
Training, and Workshops available.
Click links above to learn more about it or call Diane at 215-348-8836.
* * * NOTE: We'll also be presenting this program at:
The
One and Only Camp for Aggressive Dogs (and their humans)!
Presented
by Ted Turner and Pamela Dennison, Sept. 18-Sept. 22,
2002.
Contact info: dennison@goes.com
You
can become a calming influence for your dog!
Our
Audio Ring Nerve Program For All Dog Sports,
with Training Manual, will be available in
August.
Check our website after August 5th!!! |
G.
Invitations
We
invite you to submit your questions to Ask the
Coaches, and your stories to Handlers' Tales and Second
Chances.
Please
share your experiences and questions with your fellow
readers, to help make PeakNews a dynamic arena in
which to talk about the various aspects of ring
nerves with handlers from all over the world.
We'd
also love to hear from you with topics you want to
see covered in future issues, and any comments you
have about PeakNews.
Write
to us at: CAYPNews@aol.com
Thank
you! See you next month.
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