Welcome
to the monthly newsletter from
Conquering Ring Nerves
The
Unique Dog Handlers' Training Program to Combat Ring
Nerves!
"Controlling
the breath, is a prerequisite to controlling the
mind and the body." Swami Rama
Issue: September,
2002
Publisher & Editor: Diane
Peters Mayer
President, Conquering Ring Nerves
Co-editor:
Vanessa Klapper - Director of Fitness
A.
PeakSpeak
B. Training Tip of The Month
C. Handlers Tales
D. Second Chances
E. BookPicks
F. Announcements & Coming Events
A.
PeakSpeak
Hello
and welcome to all of our readers and new subscribers.
PeakNews
offers a range of information about ring nerves,
the ways to conquer it, and how to really enjoy competition,
plus your stories, interviews, book reviews and more.
On
September 18th, Diane presented a new program for
handlers who have reactive/aggressive dogs at the
Ted Turner-Pam Dennison R.E.W.A.R.D.S. camp held
in Blairstown, NJ. It was an absolutely fabulous
experience working with Ted and Pam and the wonderful
handlers who participated. She focused quite a bit
of her time on teaching "breath work" and
explaining the impact that controlled breathing will
have to help them to cut their anxiety and calm their
dogs.
On
September 29th, Vanessa completed the USA-Triathlon
in Disney World. Performance anxiety surfaced, but
Yoga Breath saved the day!
Presenting
the new program sparked the idea for this month's Training
Tip that is was time to revisit (see January
2002, Yoga Breath) "breath work."
Handlers
Tales features a reader who found that "breathing" was
just the ticket for her ring nerves.
In Second
Chances, you'll read about a rescued
Schnauzer, submitted by a family member of Sheri
Huffman, Competing At Your Peak's wizard Web
Master.
BookPicks reviews
again, one of the best books on the importance of
conscious breathing and it's impact on harmony, health
and success in life.
PeakNews
offers a unique format in which to engage and connect
with handlers from the US, Canada, Australia, New
Zealand, Finland and South Africa who, in some form,
experience "ring nerves"
Your
questions, comments, and stories enrich PeakNews
immeasurably. We need submissions for Ask the Coaches,
Handlers Tales, ISO, and Second Chances. Also, any
comments about what you've read will be appreciated.
Deadline is October 20th.
New
for submissions. If you wish, you may include a photo.
Email for details.
Please
join us to become the handler of your dreams. Your
dog will thank you!
Enjoy.
Diane & Vanessa
B.
Training Tip of the Month
Breathe
Your Way to Success!
Most
of us don't think about breathing, because, after
all, it just goes on by itself. But learning to consciously
control the length, depth and number of breaths that
we take, will have an amazing calming effect on the
state of our mind and body, even in the pressured
environment of the dog show.
Look
what happens if you experience ring nerves at a show:
- You
are sitting around waiting for your number to be
called and you're feeling very tense and uptight.
Your stomach is upset and when you stand up your
legs feel shaky.
- As
your anxiety builds, without realizing it, your
breath is becoming more and more rapid, you're
probably gulping air in through your mouth and
breathing through the chest.
- Rapid
chest breathing will only make your "nerves" worse.
Carbon dioxide and oxygen levels will be out of
whack. Your body will manufacture lots of adrenaline
and sugar, and the "fight or flight" response
will be triggered. This will produce rapid heartbeat,
and you may have difficulty concentrating, feel
panicked and helpless and a host of other ring
nerve symptoms. If the anxiety spikes high enough,
and the breathing becomes very rapid you may even
hyperventilate, which can lead to faintness.
- You
can bet all this physical and mental tension will
be transmitted to your dog.
Yoga
Breath II
- You'll
breathe through your diaphragm which works on the
relaxation response.
- Will
help you get and stay calm and relaxed.
- Helps
keep worries and tension away by keeping you in
the moment.
- Increases
concentration and focus.
Exercise
- Sit
comfortably on the floor with your legs crossed
or sit in a chair.
- Keep
your back straight, but relaxed.
- Cradle
your hands in your lap.
- Close
your eyes and focus on the "third eye",
(the spot in the middle of your brow).
- Or,
keep your eyes slightly open and focus on the tip
of your nose.
- Breathe
through your nose only.
- Begin
taking long, slow, smooth, deep breaths.
- Make
the breath as long as you can.
- Concentrate
on each breath as it goes in and out of your body.
- When
thoughts intrude, don't fight them, then gently
refocus on the breath.
- Practice
this technique for 2-3 minutes. Increase time to
5 minutes or more
- Practice
Yoga Breath II at least 3-5 times a day.
Training
Tip:
- Practice
the night before a show.
- In
the car when you get to the show.
- While
waiting for your number to be called.
C.
Handlers' Tales
L.
R., a handler from Delaware, participated in one
of our seminars, and tells how "breath work" has
helped to enrich her experiences with her dog.
"I
admit I came to the seminar with skepticism. If any
of the methods were of the type where I had to stand
in front of a mirror chanting positive affirmations,
then I was out the door. On the other hand, I desperately
needed some tools to help relieve me of the anxiety
that did not allow me to achieve the focus and concentration
necessary to get the most out of any activity that
required performance. I was so insecure that I constantly
played mental tapes of my ineptness and I was consumed
with thoughts of making mistakes. I began to shut
down and not participate, even when I wasn't showing,
and I was missing so much from the workshops, seminars
and dog shows that I attended.
I
had a rather mortifying experience at an agility
trial. I knew I had to do something when a 12 year
old competitor had no problem remembering to do the
3rd and final red jump required in a Snooker class,
and I forgot to do it because of my nerves! That's
when I registered for the Competing At Your Peak
seminar with my dog. I was in desperate need of tools
to help me obtain focus, and at the same time to
stop communicating my anxiety to my dog and stressing
her out.
The
seminar began with some easy stretching exercises
which helped reduce body tension. Then we learned
how to do Yoga Breath in a variety of situations.
I was so surprised that I felt an almost immediate
lessening of my anxiety after we practiced Yoga Breath.
I found I could stop the negative thoughts and was
able to bring myself back to the immediate present.
I still practice Yoga Breath every day. This helps
me center myself so I can focus on my dog and the
task at hand.
Yes,
I still get nervous and make mistakes, but I haven't
shut down since the seminar. I'm doing new activities
in environments that have the potential to be very
stressful for me and my dog. I'm getting better and
I believe my dog is getting better as well. I learned
how to cope with my anxiety and loss of concentration
by just breathing! For this I'm very grateful."
Thanks
so much L. R. for telling your story and letting
our readers know how conscious control of the breath
can lead to enjoyment and success.
Let's
hear from other readers who have found techniques
for easing ring nerves.
Note:
Please share with us your experiences in the ring:
achievements and successes, difficulties and how
you coped, funny and/or embarrassing moments, etc.
To submit a story, please write to us at: CAYPNews@aol.com
D.
Second Chances
This
month's rescue does not compete in dog sports. But
we decided that her story was an important one to
tell and that she's a real winner, as is everyone
who she touched.
Hi!
I'm Jasmine...and I'm a very lucky dog.
Eight
weeks ago, I was adopted by my new forever parents.
Laleen & Bob (but I call them Mom & Dad).
And, boy, has my life turned around! They had found
me by the internet through Schnauzer Rescue. They've
said they didn't mind the 7 hr drive to Mesquite,
TX to get me, since there was no rescue service in
Arkansas.
Before
I was adopted, I was really miserable. My master
would leave me for hours and hours in a fenced yard
with no food or water. The fleas & ticks were
really bad on me...but what were really hurting me
were the heartworms from some mosquito bite. My master
didn't care about me nor how bad my health was getting.
But an angel of a neighbor did. Anita Smith (my first
angel) had been observing my daily abandonment...and
finally called the authorities. When confronted,
my master said he'd rather surrender me than to pay
a hefty fine for cruelty to animals. What a bum!
Then,
Diane & Don Marshall (my guardian angels) came
and removed me from that infested yard. They took
me to a vet where I was bathed, dipped, given shots
and began treatments for heartworms. But most of
my coat was matted or infested, so I was given a "mutt
cut". It felt so good to be cleaned and trimmed
that I didn't mind the cage...but I was scared because
I didn't know what was going to happen to me.
Then,
I was put in the care of Evelyn Hoover, who was yet
another wonderful, understanding angel. She was vital
in the search to place me in a forever home on behalf
of the Lone Star Miniature Schnauzer Club of Dallas,
Inc. Breed Rescue Program. Thankfully, it was her
posting on the internet that resulted in my new home.
On
July 28th, I started my new life with the Huffmans...and
it sure is sweet! When Mom &/or Dad are home,
I like to be right there beside them, like a shadow.
I'm so happy here that the only time I bark is when
they leave me alone...I'm so afraid of being abandoned
again. But Mom & Dad keep telling me that they
will be back...and they always are. Boy, am I a lucky
dog!
After
a couple of weeks, my little surprise started to
show. By now, I'm ready to deliver my 4 puppies any
day. Mom & Dad are still wondering about the
male dog that did "the deed". They think
it was the little black terrier that was seen in
the yard with me for a few days before my rescue
because I got pregnant about then. I wish it had
been another schnauzer...
Mom & Dad
bought a baby playpen ($4 at Helping Hands) for my
puppies to grow in. They've been keeping a very close
eye on my pregnancy, since it's high-risk due to
the heartworm treatments. So, when Dad was called
out of town to help his stepmother, Jesse, recover
from a car accident this week, I was lucky to be
given special treatment...I got to go to work with
Mom!
I've
really liked resting at Mom's feet under her desk
while she's been working. I'm not stressed about
being home alone and the vet is right down the street.
Mom's boss and the whole Fuji team have been very
understanding about my dilemma. They've said that
I'm so quiet that they don't even know that I'm there.
Mom walks and feeds me as frequently as a very pregnant
dog, like me, needs to be. The Team nicknamed Mom's
office as Puppies-R-Us.
Today
is my last day to go to work with Mom, which I have
really enjoyed. If I go into labor today at the office,
Mom will take me to the vet right away. If not, I
hope to have my puppies at home this weekend because
Dad will be back, too. Mom sure has been calling
the vet and Evelyn (who works for a vet) a lot lately
for advice about my delivery. For a mid-dogmom, I
think she'll be okay.
Boy,
am I a very, lucky dog! Ruff! Ruff!
With
lotsa tail waggin',
Jasmine
Huffman
Laleen
Huffman and her husband, Bob, live in Bella Vista,
Arkansas. Laleen is employed by Fuji Photo Film USA,
Inc. and Bob is retired. Prior to Jasmine, they previously
adopted a rescued schnauzer, Muffin, from a local
shelter. They enjoyed giving Muffin the best years
of her life. The Huffmans have also raised two other
schnauzers from puppies, Crystal and Pistol. Even
though they have a deep love of the schnauzer breed,
the Huffmans have found it especially rewarding to
give a rescued dog a "forever" home...because
for whatever the dogs have been through, they are
forever grateful.
By
the way, much to their vet's surprise, Jasmine delivered
8 puppies instead of 4. Six survived and are growing
bigger (as well as cuter) every day. They all look
very much like their apparent daddy...a Boston Terrier.
Thank
you Jasmine, Laleen and Bob for this lovely piece.
We
are honored to send the CAYP $25.00 donation to Lone
Star Miniature Schnauzer Club of Dallas, Inc. Rescue,
1310 Andrew, Mesquite, Texas 75149, Attn: Evelyn
Hoover.
Have
a great rescue story? We all want to read it!
Note:
Please send us the story of your rescued dog and
how it became or is becoming a competitor. As a
thank you for your contribution, Competing At Your
Peak Inc. will donate $25.00 in you and your dog's
name, to the shelter or rescue group of your choice.
To submit a story, please write to us at: CAYPNews@aol.com
E.
Book Picks - This book can be purchased from
Amazon.com by clicking on the book title.
Science
of Breath. A Practical Guide
by Rama, Ballentine, Hymes
(see February 2002 issue).
We
cannot recommend this book highly enough. Imagine
a book dedicated to the examination of the breath,
something most of us never consciously think about.
Here's
a snippet from the Foreward to peak your interest:
"...in
1970, Swami Rama, raised in a Himalayan cave and
trained in the closely guarded secrets of yoga from
boyhood, walked into an American research laboratory.
Under the most rigorous experimental conditions,
he simulated death by virtually stopping his brain
waves and heart beat-yet remained fully conscious
of events occurring around him in the laboratory.
Suddenly the claim of the Indian yogis seemed less
like superstition and more like evidence of an extensive
inner science..." Contains exercises for daily
practice.
If
the breath is that powerful, and it is, think what
it can do to stop your ring nerves!
F.
Announcements & Coming Events
Seminar
- Combating Ring Nerves For All Dog Sports
For Handlers and Dogs
Make
plans now to attend our popular six hour seminar
on
Saturday, October 19, 2002 from 9:00am-4:00pm.
This
is an intensive, interactive and fun seminar, limited
to 25 participants - $135.00 includes seminar and
materials.
Join
us and learn to:
- Break
the Cycle of Distorted Thinking.
- Embrace
Positive Self-Talk.
- Change
Your Picture and Change the Outcome.
- Relax
with Exercises and Techniques that Work!
- Ready
Yourself for the Ring with Easy Stretching Exercises.
- Move
Smoothly and Effortlessly in the Ring.
- Feel
Confident and in Command of Yourself in the Ring.
Practice
with your dog in simulated show situations.
See
the difference a day makes!
Read
more about it or click
to register
or
call Diane at (215)348-8836.
Site:
Positive Motivation Dog Training
187 Route 94, Blairstown, NJ 07825
Ring
Nerves have you in a tailspin and can't make the
seminar?
Our
Audio Ring Nerve Program For All Dog Sports, with
Training Manual, is now available. It contains many
of the basic exercises and techniques we teach at
the seminar, and a few new ones too. To read more
about it/order click here or
call Diane at 215-348-8836. $29.95 plus S&H.
The
Program for Handlers with Aggressive and/or Reactive
Dogs will ALSO be offered in a four hour Workshop
on Saturday, March 22, 2003. (No dogs, please).
You
can become a calming influence for your dog!
Seminar,
Camp and Workshop will be held in Blairstown, NJ.
To
register for this workshop, or for more information
and details about all our programs and products, click
here or send an email to Diane Peters Mayer
at:
Dpetersmayer@aol.com or
call 215-348-8836.
Thank
you! See you next month.
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